Come to the Well

A few years ago, I discovered a Christian band called ‘Casting Crowns’. I now have 6 of their albums. Their music is great, the lyrics are Bible based but challenge all aspects of life and attitude. They sing it straight from the shoulder and I love that.

Check out their website www.castingcrowns.com

One of the songs I love is called ‘Come to the well’

I have what you need, but you keep on searching. I’ve done all the work but you keep on working

When you’re running on empty and you can’t find the remedy,

Just come to the well.

You can spend your whole life chasing what’s missing But that empty inside, it just ain’t gonna listen

When nothing can satisfy and the world leaves you high and dry.

Just come to the well.

And all who thirst will thirst no more, And all who search will find what their souls long for.

The world will try but it can never fill

So leave it all behind and come to the well.

So bring me your heart no matter how broken, Just come as you are when your last prayer is spoken

Just rest in your arms a while, you’ll feel a change my child

When you come to the well.

And all who thirst will thirst no more, And all who search will find what their souls long for.

The world will try but it can never fill

So leave it all behind and come to the well.

And now that you’re full of love beyond measure, Your joy’s gonna flow like a stream in the desert

Soon all the world will see living water is found in me

‘Cause you’ve come to the well.

Leave it all behind, leave it all behind

Your pursuit of perfection, Your fear of rejection, Your temporary pleasures, All your earthly treasurers

Dried up empty religion, Rusty chains of addiction, All the guilt that weighs you down

Just leave it all behind and come to the well.

Casting Crowns Copyright 2011 Sony/ATV

The comment on the album sleeve throws a different light on a familiar passage from John 4.

“The woman at the well thought she was standing by a well and talking to a man. In reality she was standing by a hole in the ground and she was talking to the well. She thought she had already had her source but she was in fact dying of spiritual thirst. We often come to the Father with our well. We already have our own idea of what will fill us. Then we ask God to bless our ideas, our source, our well, but we soon realise that Jesus is not the blesser of our plans but the Author of life! He is our source. Any other well we attempt to draw from, is just a hole in the ground”.

New Wine

I have just returned from a week at New Wine, week 2, in Somerset. This was a gathering of about 11,000 camping Christians, organised by the Church of England but all denominations were welcome.

It was wonderful to get away from the routine and spend the week in God’s presence. Worship, seminars, sharing food and living in community were all good for my heart. Coming from a small church, it was so good just to be a part of the huge numbers there, a glimpse of heaven and as we all worshipped many came to faith and many were healed and set free.

It was good, actually essential, to spend time totally focussing, maybe having to re-focus on God and His word and plan for me. Many seeds have been planted in my life this week, some for now, some for later.

Expecting to encounter God is vital and being prepared to step out into His next move for us. The Christian life should be lived as an adventure and never be boring. Faith is spelt R-I-S-K.


step out at His call, out of our comfort zones and see His kingdom come.

Think on verse 2 from Mark 2

And no-one pours new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the wine will burst the skins, and both the wine and the wineskins will be ruined. No, he pours new wine into new wineskins.”

For more info and to book to go next year, see www,new-wine.org

When we have given our lives over to Jesus, we become ambassadors for Him wherever we go. We carry the presence of God with us at all times and impact and influence many lives everyday.

It is essential to join a local church and belong to a group of God’s people to work out in practice what being a Godly family is all about.

The problem is, we only meet together for only 5-10 hours a week (maybe less) as gathered church in services, meetings, events etc.

As there are 168 hours in the week and we sleep for 48 of those, this leaves 120 hours, 10 of which we are gathered church. This means we are scattered church for 110 hours each week. - scattered into our homes, schools, hospitals, offices and every other place we go. We are called to be salt and light.

We need to be equipped and strengthened in our gathered times, ready for impacting people for Jesus in the scattered times. Are you?

If not, what do you need and how can you encourage others?

Being a Christian isn’t just for Sundays…its 24/7

More info about being a whole life disciple on the LICC website www.licc.org.uk. The ‘Imagine’…Life on the Frontline’ course by Neil Hudson is great!This is a six-session DVD resource for small groups to inspire and equip Christians to make a difference on their Frontlines.

This creative and practical small group resource is a six-session DVD series for small groups seeking to help one another live fruitfully and faithfully for Christ in the daily places of life and work. Each session has a short film, discussion material, Bible reflections and stories illustrating how the principles have been worked out in real life. The sessions are:

  • Session 1: The Frontline Call – What is my Frontline and why does it matter?

  • Session 2: The Frontline Commission – What happens when life on our Frontline feels difficult?

  • Session 3: The Frontline Community – How do all our various church activities equip us for our lives when we are apart?

  • Session 4: The Frontline Concern – How do you know what to do on your Frontline?

  • Session 5: The Frontline Cry – How does our Frontline shape our prayers?

  • Session 6: The Frontline Commitment – How can we sustain our commitment to one another on the Frontline?


I find it fascinating that in the middle of lists and lists and lists of names recorded in 1 Chronicles, there is a short entry about a man called Jabez. It simply records that he prayed a prayer which God answered. We know almost nothing about him, as he appears ‘in between families’ with no apparent ties to anyone. It reads:


1 Chronicles 4 v 9-10

Jabez was more honourable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request.


My homegroup recently spent time meditating on this verse, asking God to show us what this meant to us individually and/or us as a church.

The phrase ‘enlarge my territory’ jumped out. This could be physical, but more likely to mean either enlarge our influence for God or broaden our understanding of who God is and what is possible in us, locally, nationally or globally.

Interestingly. this came at a time when I had just started to write this blog for small churches, locally, nationally globally – I was encouraged! It was also around this time that I started to organise a meeting of national small church networkers. Again I was encouraged.


A small church can have a big influence in the local community and overseas. I know of churches who with only 20 or so people, have impact in Uganda, Sierra Leone and India. A little resource in the UK goes a long way overseas eg. The price of a daily newspaper will provide food for a street child.


Jabez is wanting God to ‘enlarge his territory’ but in a way which does not cause himself or others harm. He prayed for God’s blessing (we need to do that more) but also wanted God’s hand to be with him. Alone he could do nothing. It reminded me of verse 8 of Micah 6:


“He has shown you, O man, what is good;

And what does the LORD require of you, but to do justly, to love mercy,

And to walk humbly with your God? NKJV.

God answered Jabez’ prayer, as He answers ours.

The last question we asked in our homegroup that day was “What will I do with what God has said today?”

We always need to read scripture with a set of 3 questions in mind:

What? (what is happening, where & why)

So what? (what does this mean to me?)

Now what? (what will I do with what I have read? How do I apply it to my life?)

I encourage you to meditate on this scripture as we did and see what God has to say to you and your church.

Summer is a good time to reflect, in a different environment, by the sea or in the hills.

I was at a leadership conference in February and one of the speakers brought a selection of searching questions. It is so good to be challenged about where we are in our faith, where our church is and to realise that times of reflection are vital.


Take time to ask yourself:

  1. What is the highest goal in my ministry?

  2. Where do I go to be refreshed?

  3. Where are my ‘deep wells’?

  4. How is my thinking stimulated and my soul refreshed?

  5. How does my ministry look to God in all things?

  6. Do I look to God in all things?

  7. What is church? What are the basics?

  8. What needs to be changed in my church?

  9. How do you connect with those outside the church?

  10. How do you train your people to speak the gospel to others?

  11. What voices shape me and my church?

  12. What voices aren’t I hearing and why?

  13. Does my church primarily exist for those inside it, not yet inside it or for those who will never be inside it? What do I think? What does my church think?

  14. Giving – money, time, prayer, faith. How joyful is your giving? How joyful is your church giving? What example do I set?

  15. What are we giving?

  16. What sacrifice is involved?

(Author: Edwin Penman, Baptist World Mission)

It’s quite a list.

We all need to take time out, away from the house, phone and computer and just be alone with God. Book yourself on a retreat soon.


I pray these questions would stimulate you and bring you closer to God.

Enjoy the summer.

When I visit churches, I often hear the people say ‘There are not enough people to do all the jobs.’

If this is the case, its time to have a review and look at ‘all the jobs’ and see how necessary they really are to being church.

We look at the Great Commandment from scripture:

Matthew 22:v37-39

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment.

And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’

And the Great Commission:

Matthew 28:18-20

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

These should surely form the basis of who we are as Christians, as church and our prime activity. These passages suggest putting God first in worship and service, loving each other (ministry), loving the world (mission) and making disciples. If we are active in these 5 areas, there will be health and growth.

It is essential that the right people with the right gifts are involved in the right areas. Too many churches put ‘square pegs into round holes’.

The challenge

Have a look at your life and see how you are fulfilling your calling. Then have a look at your church and see how the current activities fit under these 5 headings.

I have been surprised in recent months as I have visited some small churches, to find people who don’t know each other very well. This is more usual in a large church where you can worship in a crowd but you can’t fellowship with one, hence the need for small groups.

Small numbers make it much easier to know each other well (work, family health etc.) and the opportunities are easier for practical and prayer support. One of the major strengths I have found in smaller churches is the intimate family nature of them. Where everyone knows everyone, maybe too well! But to find a congregation of about 20 people who didn’t even know first names was a bit of a shock!

To try and counter this, there is a simple format used by Neil Hudson in his Frontline work for the LICC. It’s called ‘This Time Tomorrow’. This can be used in a worship service in many ways.

One way is to get people to ask the person they are sitting next to, what they will be doing at this time tomorrow. After a few minutes, share the feedback to the wider group then use these answers as part of the intercession.

Another way is to ask one or two people to be interviewed about their life so that people can pray specifically and support each other better.

The church is supposed to be a functioning, loving, supportive Godly family, not a set of individuals who come to share the same space on a Sunday then go home.

I encourage you to try this format in church, large or small, and get to know each other better, then together you can fulfil Ephesians 4 v16:

“Under his control all the different parts of the body fit together, and the whole body is held together by every joint with which it is provided. So when each separate part works as it should, the whole body grows and builds itself up through love.” TEV


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